A POEM FOR MYSELF ON MY 26 1/2th BIRTHDAY

I leave this part of me with you 

I was a wounded little girl 

Incomplete and anxious 

Worried completely and anxiously 

that I would be left behind 

But she is fading from me now 

Or coming into view as 

I return to pick her up 

And nurse her into someone who 

Grows up to believe

she is meant to be 

loved

Surely 

And I will see the whole world 

And I will live in palaces 

Behind high fences of grass and wrought iron gates carved into roses without thorns 

And I will invite in the ones I love

And show them my heart 

mended and whole

like it oughta to be 

beating in tune like it’s ‘sposed to sound 

Gushing out steady gold and 

gilded promises that are kept 

And they will not say ‘I’m so sorry’

And they will not say ‘you deserve better’

And they will not lick my wounds 

or hold my hands solemnly 

Thinking “ Poor, loveless her” 

I’m finished 

I wake up with my head held high 

I buy the skyline of every building that pushed me out me 

I shake the sheets of shame 

and let in the light 

Pouring from blessed arched windows 

I arch forward for the photo 

Of the September issue of the glossiest magazine 

In a dress that I ignore the price tag of 

I accept the award and thank the little girl

Who got up from the curb and became somebody 

I look myself in the eyes and believe deeply in who she has become 

I say “fuck it” when I find things are not what I thought they were 

I dress for me 

I drink for me 

I eat for me 

Toast to me 

I shave for me

I pray for me 

I grow for me 

I grew for me 

I run for me 

I run towards me 

And 

If I have no destined love 

If I find no intercessor in the fox hole

If the only soulmate I know is the one who’s slept beside me these odd years 

I cradle her 

I kick everyone out the room 

The one who left me suddenly 

FUCK YOU

The one who came back day late dollar short 

FUCK YOU too

The one who made love to the idea of me then punished the reality Instead

FUCK YOU especially 

I am taking the years back 

I am gleaning youthful success and a billboard across a Manhattan tower 

Plastering my real smile and perfect ass

I am shedding Shame 

masked as modesty 

And desperation masked as mercy 

Find me in the perfume section of the department store doused in a fragrance called JOY

Find me singing love songs and focusing more on the key than the lyrics 

Because I’m not looking out the window of the plane 

Acting out scenes from a cliche noir 

Hoping for things to be different than the way they really are 

this time 

I am lounging back in a wood grain private jet shuttering the shades and reclining 

Saying ‘Wake me when we’ve landed’ 

I push up the blinds as I descend over the land

Scanning over all of it 

Which I own 

My patience is DONE

My halo is GONE

I will be no one’s savior 

I will be no one’s regret 

I will be no one’s back up plan/ afterthought/ And nobody’s trophy 

I am throwing the fight 

Rigging the bets

And blowing the winnings on ME 

I don’t wish any of you well 

Go straight to hell 

I am done wishing 

I don’t want a soul back 

Don’t call me ever again 

Swallow my name 

when it comes to mind 

What’s yours is mine 

But Keep the change you owe me 

Change or die the same 

Forget forget forget me 

I will be happy 

I will be wealthy 

I AM important 

And 

This time 

I choose ME.